Ambidextrous Anmol😊

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"Do something today about which you can be proud tomorrow."
-Anmol
Ambidextrous Anmol

Taking care of your Mental and Emotional Health would make you and your close ones proud, whenever they see you smile with confidence 😊

Meet Anmol 😊

A Psychology Professional Propelled by Passion, Positivity, and Purpose, who has connected with individuals from over 196 countries, gaining insights into diverse cultures and offering support and understanding as a Compassionate Counselor.

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Disappointed by Others? The Truth About Expectations

Disappointed by Others? The Truth About Expectations

How not to be disappointed because of expectations!

You probably have been disappointed because of your expectations from others...


People say "If you expect nothing from somebody 😏 you are never disappointed" 😐

Can we live without expectations?
Can we be happy without expecting?

By not expecting anything from anyone we are still expecting 🤭

"To wish was to hope, and to hope was to expect" - Jane Austen

What that means... we are just fooling ourselves 😶

We all are expecting every moment we can't have ZERO expectations; it is not realistic!

When we were born, we expected to love and care... when we grew up into adults, we expect... when we all would be old, we would expect.

Now it's true that many times expectations hurt 🤕

So, the solution for that is... tell me are you expecting an answer or not...
of course, you are!

We all expect but we try to suppress it because of our past bad experiences 

Whenever such situations come, we keep a stone over our hearts and say I don't expect but you know that you are/were

The only thing is that you were expecting something that was not fulfilled because of that you were hurt and out of fear/pain you don't want to expect anything from anyone, you don't expect just because you don't want those things again in your life

But since we are humans, we will expect you to expect an answer to this... 
You would have expected something that's why you came here

If it is not consciously then it will be subconsciously but the truth is yes you expect things

Consciously you are trying to run from reality but you are here only

Consciously you say I don't expect but you do

Everyone can be better if one learns from his/her past and applies those learning in the present

See our every wish is not fulfilled... every goal is not achieved.. similarly, every expectation is not meant to meet 

The only solution is to have REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS 😇


Learn every time from your past experiences 😇

Apply your past learnings in the present and always keep learning
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 Decoding Motivation: What Drives Us

Decoding Motivation: What Drives Us

What is Motivation?

Motivation is defined as a driving force or force responsible for the initiation, persistence, direction, and vigor of goal-directed behavior.

Human behavior, aspirations and goals, thinking, and feeling cannot be understood without considering the role of motivation in it.

Motivation prompts compels, and energizes an individual to act or behave in a particular way to attain some specific goal.

Let's go to the depth of Motivation

Secrets of Motivation!

motivation
The word motivation came from the Latin word meaning to move.
Hence, motivation is a study of what we do, and why we do that.
It is the process within that organism that moves it towards some goal.

The goal may be to acquire something or to avoid something.

What are the Motives?

Motives are specific forces that energize and direct behavior toward solving a problem to achieve a goal.

A motive is a specific need or desire, such as hunger, thirst, or achievement that prompts goal-directed behavior.

Motivation in our everyday life
Motivation Cycle
The first stage for the starting point of this motivation cycle is the birth of a desire, want, or need in the individual. The desire wants or needs to make an individual think about the way and means of satisfaction.

The drive or motives so produced on account of the felt need a desire now become a driver, persuader, and energizer of one's behavior. It initiates one's behavior toward a goal-directed path and provides sufficient inputs for the continuation of such behavior until the goal in terms of the realization of the desired need, desire, or want is not attended.

However, what one gets through the satisfaction of his felt need or desire through his motivating behavior, provides a temporary hold to his behavioral activities.

Satisfaction often leads to a motivated behavior that reinforces one's behavior to work for the realization of another goal which is the satisfaction of other needs or desires accompanied by new motives.
In this way, one motivated behavior gives birth to the next motivated behavior in the shape of a motivation cycle. It further energizes an individual to remain in the cycle of motivation by creating new desires, ambitions, and needs, the satisfaction of which further requires a new set of motivation behaviors and motivation cycle.

So right now, we studied the motivation cycle which starts from motive & ends on motive.
Motivation is a Process!

The process that accounts for an individual's intensity, direction, and persistence of efforts to attain a goal.

Intensity - describe how hard a person tries.

Direction - in which direction the person is working is it a goal-directed direction.

Persistence - how long a person can maintain his or her efforts.

When we are talking about motivation how can we forget Maslow's theory of Motivation!

Maslow's Theory of Self Actualization or Hierarchy of Human Needs

This theory was developed by ABRAHAM MASLOW in 1954.
The best-known theory of motivation is Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Maslow hypothesized that within every human being, there exists a hierarchy of five needs.

First and foremost is Physiological needs

1. Physiological Needs
It includes the most basic needs that are vital to surviving such as the need for water, thirst, air, food, shelter, and other bodily needs.

2. Safety Needs
After fulfilling the physiological needs organisms want to protect the environment from their enemy's security and protection from physical and emotional harm.

3. Love and Belongingness
This includes needs for belonging, love, and affection. Now the individual is interested in making intimate relationships with other members of the society being an accepted member of the law of an organized group.

Important to note that you can't go on to another level of this hierarchy without fulfilling the previous level

4. Esteem Needs
This includes the need for things that reflect on self-esteem, personal worth, social recognition, and accomplishment.
Internal factors such as self-respect, autonomy, and achievement, and external factors such as status, recognition, and attention.

And the last one...

5. Self-actualization
This is the highest level of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. When a person comes to this level, he comes to recognize his strengths and weaknesses.

And for a person to reach the level of self-actualization is very challenging and very hard.
the persons who have achieved the level of self-actualization are mostly saints.


There are two types of motivation

Extrinsic motivation and Intrinsic motivation let's know what are they

Extrinsic Motivation

Extrinsic motivation is those that arise from outside of the individual and are less often involved in rewards such as toffees, money, social organization, or praise.

Intrinsic Motivation

Intrinsic motivation is the type of motivation in which a person acts because it is fun, rewarding, challenging, or satisfying in some internal manner.


Motivation is something you get, from yourself, automatically, from feeling good about achieving small success.

 

Take Away 😊

Don't be sad if you think that you are not internally motivated. See motivation is not just a one-time action it's a time action.

Without being motivated you can't go a mile, and without trying to walk you can't be motivated to walk even a mile.

Find the things that give you internal happiness, the work for which don't need external motivation, the work for which you don't need to be pushed, the work for which you are ready every time & anytime, a friend that's your internal motivation that's your passion 😊 go & rock the world.

"Motivation is the fire that starts burning after you manually, painfully, coax it into existence, and it feeds on the satisfaction of seeing yourself make progress." 



Quotable Anmol 😊

If you are not expressing, you are storing it, and that gets heavy! -Anmol Loneliness A poorly understood problem shockingly affects not only the individual but also society, and consequently, the entire system and mankind, all at the same time! -Anmol Be at peace with yourself first to experience how peace looks like. -Anmol Grief never ends, it continues with us! Grief cant be healed, we need to carry it, throughout! Grief never diminishes, it deepens with time! -Anmol

Anmol's Roles 😊

His Multifaceted Approach to Psychology and Mental Health

Digital Psychology Digital Psychology

As an educator at Digital Psychology, Anmol imparts invaluable insights and knowledge, empowering individuals to navigate the intricate nuances of the human mind with clarity and confidence.

Express Uneasiness Express Uneasiness

At Express Uneasiness, Anmol serves as a compassionate counselor, providing support and guidance to individuals, helping them overcome challenges and foster emotional well-being.

With a passion for education and a commitment to mental health, Anmol strives to create positive change and promote holistic wellness 😇

Therapeutic Testimonials

These are precious gifts from my clients, each one a testament to the trust and connection we have built together 🤝

I've struggled with depression, anxiety, and self-confidence issues for a long time and never really had the courage to seek help. But when I finally decided to reach out, I came across Anmol, and I'm so glad I did. He's been an absolute angel in my life. It's a tough task to find a good therapist, much less a therapist that actually helps you open up. Anmol was always welcoming and provided a safe and comforting environment, which allowed me to open up and confront many of my unresolved issues. He made me feel heard and validated my emotions while ensuring that I was walking down the right path when dealing with my emotions. I'm happy to say that I have improved a lot and will continue to do so in the future, and it's all thanks to him. He's an amazing therapist, and I'm so lucky to have found him when I needed it the most. -ST, Kolkata, West Bengal, India. Therapeutic TestiTestimonial at www.AmbidextrousAnmol.com In simple words, I’ve never felt so content and happy. Yes, there were times when I felt lost and sometimes even scared, wondering what I would do next. But I’ve learned a few valuable things during our therapeutic journey together. I realized I was neglecting my emotions by not actually feeling them. I’ve learned to sit with my emotions, acknowledge that they exist, and understand myself better. Surprisingly, this has also helped me empathize with myself. It feels amazing to be there for myself, validate my own feelings, and make choices without seeking others’ approval. This newfound self-awareness has also helped me be more present. I’ve been doing things I never thought I had the confidence to do, like singing on stage in front of an audience & dancing solo with full confidence. I no longer compare myself to others with the same intensity. I made mistakes, but this time, I didn’t beat myself up over them. I can now empathize with others better and express myself when needed.  I didn’t realize that making a few changes could have such a profound impact. Yes, there are still emotions I struggle to process and cope with, & areas I need to work on. But now I’m better equipped to navigate those challenging times. I’m happy with my progress so far. I’ve come to realize how much power we hold in influencing our lives when we allow ourselves to freely feel every emotion, whether positive or negative. I remember being uncertain about counseling sessions initially, however, now I’m grateful for taking them with Anmol. He has a gift for making people feel comfortable being themselves around him. I’m genuinely grateful for our sessions together. Thank you for helping me understand my emotions better. You're very patient and kind, and I really appreciate how approachable and dedicated you are, even after our therapeutic journey has ended. - I can’t thank you enough! -UB, Chennai, Tamil Nadu, India. Therapeutic TestiTestimonial at www.AmbidextrousAnmol.com I was raised in a strict household, and as a shy, introverted girl, it was difficult for me to share my problems with anyone, especially within my family. However, when I was going through a tough time that was affecting my mental health and my studies, I came across Mr. Anmol. I’m so glad I did. Tbh, I never thought I would ever be able to share all my personal problems with somebody like I did. He has always been so friendly that I just opened up to share my personal struggles with him. Thanks to him, I was able to overcome everything. He helped me forgive myself for mistakes I never made and love myself again. I honestly needed to be heard at that time, and he came into my life like an angel and everything just got right!! I used to have anxiety attacks, which are now gone. My relationship with my family has improved significantly, and my academic life has gotten back on track. It feels like I have got a new life. All thanks to the friendly therapist, Mr. Ambidextrous Anmol!!  - IS, Nagpur, Maharashtra, India. Therapeutic Testimonial at www.ambidextrousanmol.com When I approached Anmol in hope that he will help me  handle my emotions; I didn’t expect it would turn me into a  complete different version. Be it the way I perceive myself, the people and situations around me or the way I respond to human behavior patterns. I found myself rewiring and changing my ground values. Started being more gentle with myself. Anmol always finds the right clue to reveal the actual root of issue. It is really helpful trait especially for a Psychologist.  Documenting how one feel and finding that whatever you feel isn’t so abnormal most of the times feels like a real bliss. Anmol is so good at that; always saying ‘sensible’ ,‘ understandable’. Asking how a session made one feel and introspecting  on that helps an individual to actually learn something actively. All these aided me in my journey. Keep spreading your magic Anmol and never lose the spark you have; the most underrated trait one would have is the beaming smile. I wish you all the best for your future endeavors. By - VH, from Guntur, Amaravathi, Andhra Pradesh, India. Therapeutic Testimonial at www.ambidextrousanmol.com When I first approached Anmol, my life felt completely overwhelming. It seemed like everything that could go wrong had gone wrong, and I was left feeling hopeless, consumed by extremely negative emotions. For the first time in my life, these emotions began to take a toll on my physical health—I lost weight, my eating habits changed, I was moving towards being anti-social, and my sleep was deeply affected. From the very beginning, Anmol was incredibly supportive. He helped me uncover aspects of myself that I had been unaware of, and he made me realize that I had been underestimating my own strength. After each session, I could feel a sense of positivity growing within me. He introduced me to several effective techniques, among which I was hesitant about self-catharsis, but he gave me the confidence to embrace it. Though challenging at first, this practice helped me bring closure to the events that were fueling my spiral of negative thoughts. When I began therapy, I was hopeless and socially isolated from my friends and family. However, as I approached the end of our sessions, I noticed a significant shift in my mindset. My thoughts had become more positive, I started to cheer myself up, and I became my own supporter—something that felt impossible before. By the end of therapy, I felt more confident and in control. I would wholeheartedly recommend Anmol to others. He handled my emotions and fears with such gentleness, and never once did I feel uncomfortable during our sessions. His approach was professional, yet deeply humane—almost as if I was confiding in a close friend who genuinely wanted to help. Each session ended on a positive note, and he patiently addressed all my doubts and queries, never rushing through the process. Anmol’s support and guidance have been invaluable to me, and I’m deeply grateful for the progress I’ve made under his care. By - SS, from Muzaffarnagar, Uttar Pradesh, India. Therapeutic Testimonial at www.ambidextrousanmol.com

While I hold them close to my heart 💙
I choose to share them to inspire hope and offer reassurance to others who may be seeking support 🧭

Each testimonial represents a journey of shared experiences, insights, and growth, and I am deeply grateful to my clients for entrusting me with their their uneasy and challenging experiences, allowing me to support them on their healing journey 🌱

I feel blessed to facilitate these journeys and grateful to be part of this beautiful process, knowing it’s only the beginning.


Each shared journey is a reminder of the strength and resilience within us all. Let these journeys inspire hope and the belief that healing is always possible.

-one session at a time ⏳