You probably have been disappointed because of your expectations from others...
People say "If you expect nothing from somebody 😏 you are never disappointed" 😐
Can we live without expectations?
Can we be happy without expecting?
By not expecting anything from anyone we are still expecting 🤭
"To wish was to hope, and to hope was to expect" - Jane Austen
What that means... we are just fooling ourselves 😶
We all are expecting every moment we can't have ZERO expectations; it is not realistic!
When we were born, we expected to love and care... when we grew up into adults, we expect... when we all would be old, we would expect.
Now it's true that many times expectations hurt 🤕
So, the solution for that is... tell me are you expecting an answer or not...
of course, you are!
We all expect but we try to suppress it because of our past bad experiences
Whenever such situations come, we keep a stone over our hearts and say I don't expect but you know that you are/were
The only thing is that you were expecting something that was not fulfilled because of that you were hurt and out of fear/pain you don't want to expect anything from anyone, you don't expect just because you don't want those things again in your life
But since we are humans, we will expect you to expect an answer to this...
You would have expected something that's why you came here
If it is not consciously then it will be subconsciously but the truth is yes you expect things
Consciously you are trying to run from reality but you are here only
Consciously you say I don't expect but you do
Everyone can be better if one learns from his/her past and applies those learning in the present
See our every wish is not fulfilled... every goal is not achieved.. similarly, every expectation is not meant to meet
The only solution is to have REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS 😇
Learn every time from your past experiences 😇
Apply your past learnings in the present and always keep learning
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