They thought it was just a harmless question...
I took a pause...
Because being a psychologist does not mean I decode someone who is not in the room.
It does not mean diagnosing without consent.
It does not mean taking sides in someone else’s story.
My work begins with consent.
With responsibility.
With ethics.
Human behavior always has a history.
And that history deserves to be heard and understood, not guessed in a casual conversation.
This meme is playful.
The boundary is real.
Understanding is powerful.
It reveals patterns. It explains reactions. It offers insight.
And that insight must be used ethically.
That is what I stand for.
If your relationship is not moving the way you hoped it would, the safest way to explore what is not working is in a counseling space where both voices are heard, understood without bias, and supported with care.
Where the focus is to work for the betterment of the relationship and the well being of the individuals involved.
And by relationship, I do not only mean romantic ones. Over the years, I have worked with friendships, parent and child bonds, and partnerships of many kinds. The dynamics may differ. The need for understanding remains the same.
Sometimes relationships get tangled.
They need guided conversation to bring them back on track so the journey becomes smoother for the people involved.
If you feel it might help, you can save this email and reach out whenever you are ready:
📩 ExpressToAnmol@gmail.com
Your Psychologist,
Ambidextrous Anmol
