I always wanted to learn sign language! But today, more than ever, because...
I booked a ride. Before my Rapido Captain arrived, I received the usual automated messages—except the last one:
“Hello sir”
“On my way, please don’t cancel”
“Few minutes on the way”
“I am deaf, please”
Despite knowing he was deaf when he arrived, I instinctively tried to talk to confirm if he was my ride—something I usually do, but this was a different scenario! Very politely, using sign language, he conveyed that he was deaf. Instantly, I regretted my autopilot action.
I hid my embarrassment as I sat behind him, thinking—what now?
When we reached our destination, my mind suggested saying thank you in sign language. I quickly searched YouTube, learned the sign language for it, and was ready to use it.
After the payment, I signed my gratitude.
A big smile spread across his face. Encouraged, he wanted to continue the conversation. I assumed he asked what I do, so I proudly typed in my phone, “Psychologist / Manovigyanik,” only to realize that wasn’t his question 🙃
I still wonder—how would I say I’m a Psychologist in sign language?
Since my knowledge of sign language was limited, he typed, “You learned a little bit of sign language.” I nodded. After a little more interaction, we bid our goodbyes, feeling happier.
Reflecting on this, I realize how often we unconsciously act out of habit, even when we are aware of someone’s limitations. Sometimes, we’re just on autopilot!
Here are two things that I learned from this incident:
1. Learning even a little sign language and being aware of the people around us could help us become better humans. Small efforts can make someone feel acknowledged, accepted, and encouraged to live with confidence.
2. When autopilot mode takes over, taking accountability can make a huge difference.
I’m grateful, as this moment made me pause and reflect, reinforcing my commitment to keep learning from life.
Your Psychologist,
Who is also in the process of being a better human,
Ambidextrous Anmol
